What will I be when I grow up? Where will I live? Will things turn out okay? It’s easy to overthink the future. Proverbs 20 gives us a better way.

God Directs Your Steps

Proverbs 20:24 A person’s steps are directed by the LORD. How then can anyone understand their own way?

We don’t have to understand everything about our future. God is leading us one step at a time, even when we can’t see the whole path.

One Day at a Time

Matthew 6:34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Jesus said not to worry about tomorrow. That’s the secret to stopping our overthinking: trust God with the future and focus on following him today.

The Takeaway

You don’t have to figure out your whole future. God is directing your steps, so trust him and take one faithful step today.

Discuss and Dive Deeper

Talk about it:

  1. Fathers and sons, read Proverbs 20 together, taking turns by section.
  2. When it comes to your future, what are some things you’re confused about?
  3. How have you seen the Lord direct your steps in unexpected ways?
  4. What’s the Christian secret when it comes to stopping our overthinking?
  5. Dads, what’s one thing you worried about when you were young that turned out fine?
  6. What’s your favorite verse from this chapter? Explain.
  7. Close your time together in prayer.

See also:

Proverbs for Men and Boys (Men’s Series)