Gossip is when we talk about other people behind their backs. Proverbs 26 says rumors are like tasty snacks. They’re hard to resist, but they do damage.

Tasty but Harmful

Proverbs 26:22 The words of a gossip are like choice morsels; they go down to the inmost parts.

Rumors are fun to hear and fun to share. But once they get inside us, they change the way we see people, and they can hurt someone’s reputation.

Stop the Fire

Proverbs 26:20 Without wood a fire goes out; without a gossip a quarrel dies down.

A fire goes out when you stop adding wood. Gossip works the same way. When you refuse to pass a rumor along, it dies.

Protect Your Friends

Proverbs 17:9 Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.

A real friend doesn’t spread stories. He protects people, especially when they aren’t around to defend themselves.

The Takeaway

Rumors might be tempting, but they hurt people. Stop the fire by refusing to pass them along, and protect your friends.

Discuss and Dive Deeper

Talk about it:

  1. Fathers and sons, read Proverbs 26 together, taking turns by section.
  2. Why are rumors like “dainty morsels”? What makes gossip so appealing?
  3. What should you do when you hear a rumor about a good friend?
  4. What can spreading gossip do to a good friend? What can it do to you?
  5. Sons, what could you say next time someone starts gossiping?
  6. What’s your favorite verse from this chapter? Explain.
  7. Close your time together in prayer.

See also:

Proverbs for Men and Boys (Men’s Series)