When two pieces of metal rub together, they both get sharper. Proverbs 27 says good friends are like that. They make each other better.

Iron Sharpens Iron

Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.

A true friend doesn’t just make you laugh. He helps you become a better man. He encourages you, challenges you, and points you to God.

Truth That Stings

Proverbs 27:6 Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.

Sometimes a good friend will tell you something you don’t want to hear. That can hurt, but it’s a sign he cares. Someone who only flatters you isn’t much of a friend.

The Takeaway

A true friend sharpens you. He tells you the truth, even when it stings, and helps you grow. Be that kind of friend.

Discuss and Dive Deeper

Talk about it:

  1. Fathers and sons, read Proverbs 27 together, taking turns by section.
  2. Share a time when a friend told you something true that stung a little.
  3. Name a friend who is afraid to be honest with you. Is it their fault or yours?
  4. What’s the best way to call out a friend when they need some sharpening?
  5. Dads, who sharpens you? Sons, who sharpens you?
  6. What’s your favorite verse from this chapter? Explain.
  7. Close your time together in prayer.

See also:

Proverbs for Men and Boys (Men’s Series)

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