Words are like tools. The right tool at the right time can fix almost anything. The wrong one can make a mess. Proverbs 15 teaches us how to use our words well.

A Timely Word

Proverbs 15:23 A person finds joy in giving an apt reply—and how good is a timely word!

Sometimes a friend needs encouragement. Sometimes he needs advice. Sometimes he just needs you to listen. Wise people pay attention and figure out what is needed.

Gentle Words Calm Things Down

Proverbs 15:1 A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

When someone is upset, yelling back only makes it worse. A calm, gentle answer can stop a fight before it starts.

Build People Up

Ephesians 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.

Before you speak, ask: Will this help? Is this the right time? Even true words can hurt if they’re said at the wrong moment.

The Takeaway

Good words at the right time are a gift. Pay attention to what people need, stay calm, and use your words to build others up.

Discuss and Dive Deeper

Talk about it:

  1. Fathers and sons, read Proverbs 15 together, taking turns by section.
  2. Read Proverbs 15:23. Share a time when someone said the right thing at the right time to you. How was it helpful?
  3. Share a time when you (or someone else) shared the right thing at the wrong time. How did the other person react?
  4. Read Proverbs 15:1. Sons, when is it hard for you to give a gentle answer?
  5. Dads, who in your life could use an encouraging word this week?
  6. What’s your favorite verse from this chapter? Explain.
  7. Close your time together in prayer.

See also:

Proverbs for Men and Boys (Men’s Series)

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