To pray for breakthrough, set aside a regular time and place, start with praise, ask God boldly for what you need, and humbly surrender to his will. Prayer isn’t a performance or a magic formula. It’s a conversation with a loving Father who wants to hear from you. Even Jesus’ closest followers had to learn how to pray, and the good news is that we can learn too.

Make Time to Pray

Jesus’ disciples watched him pray often, and one day they asked him, “Lord, teach us to pray” (Luke 11:1). They noticed that prayer was a priority for Jesus, even in his busiest seasons.

Mark 1:35 Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.

If Jesus needed to get away from distractions to pray, so do we. Find a time and place that works for you, whether that’s early in the morning, on a lunch break, or on your drive to work. Start with five minutes a day and build from there. Prayer won’t happen by accident. It needs a place on your calendar.

Start With Praise

When Jesus taught his disciples to pray, he began with God’s name and God’s kingdom before getting to their daily needs (Matthew 6:9-13). Starting with praise reminds us who we’re talking to.

Psalm 145:1-3 I will exalt you, my God the King; I will praise your name for ever and ever. Every day I will praise you and extol your name for ever and ever. Great is the Lord and most worthy of praise; his greatness no one can fathom.

When we begin by worshiping God and thanking him for what he’s done, our problems come into perspective. Worship music or a few verses of Scripture can help you focus your heart before you start asking for things.

Pray With Boldness

God isn’t offended when we bring our real needs and honest feelings to him. In fact, he invites us to come with confidence because Jesus understands our weaknesses.

Hebrews 4:16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

Bold prayer isn’t arrogant. It’s trusting. God already knows what’s on your heart, but he wants you to bring it to him. Pray specifically for the breakthrough you need, whether that’s in your marriage, your job, your health, or a struggle with sin.

Pray With Humility

Boldness and humility go together. In the garden of Gethsemane, Jesus poured out his heart honestly, but he ended with surrender.

Matthew 26:39 Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.”

Prayer is a two-way conversation. As you grow, you’ll spend less time talking and more time listening. Slowing down helps us hear what’s on God’s heart, and sometimes the greatest breakthrough is when our will lines up with his.

The Takeaway

How do I pray for breakthrough? Set aside a regular time and place, start with praise, ask God boldly for what you need, and humbly surrender to his will. Prayer is a growing conversation with a Father who loves you.

Discuss and Dive Deeper

Talk about it:

  1. Read “The Takeaway” above as a group. What are your initial thoughts about the article?
  2. Who taught you to pray, or what did prayer look like in your home growing up?
  3. What’s the best time and place for you to pray without distraction?
  4. Read Psalm 145:1-3. Why do you think it helps to start with praise before asking God for things?
  5. Read Hebrews 4:16. What’s a bold prayer you’ve prayed, and how did God answer?
  6. How can you slow down in prayer to listen for God’s perspective?
  7. What does it look like for you to submit your will to God’s will right now?

See also:

Breakthrough Disciplines (Series)