What does the Bible say about sex? It says sex is a good gift that God made for a husband and wife in marriage. Sex isn’t a dirty word, and it isn’t something to joke about. It’s special, and it’s something you can always talk about with your parents. As you get older, you’ll hear more about it, so it’s good to know what God says first.
Parents: This article is written for kids to read with you. For help leading the conversation, see the Parenting in a Sexualized Culture series.
God Made Our Bodies
At the very beginning of the Bible, God made people. He made them boys and girls, men and women, and he said his creation was “very good” (Genesis 1:31).
Genesis 1:27-28 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.”
“Be fruitful and increase in number” means have babies and grow families. God designed our bodies, and he designed the way babies are made. The Bible says you are “fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14). Your body is not gross or embarrassing. It’s God’s good design.
Sex Is a Gift for Marriage
God gave sex as a special gift for a husband and wife. It’s one of the ways they show their love and become close to each other in a way that’s different from any other relationship.
Genesis 2:24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.
“One flesh” means a husband and wife are joined together in a special way for life. That’s why God says sex belongs in marriage. Think of it like a wrapped birthday present. It’s a wonderful gift, but it’s meant to be opened at the right time.
Talk About It the Right Way
You might hear kids at school or online use the word “sex” in a silly or rude way. They might tell jokes or say things that aren’t true. Because sex is special to God, we should talk about it respectfully, not as a joke.
The best people to talk to are your parents. They love you and want to answer your questions. You never have to feel embarrassed to ask them something. If you hear something confusing, go to them first.
The Takeaway
Sex is a good gift God made for a husband and wife in marriage. Your body is wonderfully made, sex is special, and you should always talk about it respectfully. When you have questions, ask your parents.
