Parenting teens to think biblically in today's world is not easy. Try these 8 tips.
Talking Points:
- Tip #1: Remember, you’re the parent. Your teen is fighting for independence-but they need to earn it along the way.
- Tip #2: Lead with a plan. Transfer your values and establish goals for the family and lead toward those things. Proverbs 22:6
- Tip #3: Listen to your teens. Have conversations, not lectures. You can learn a lot about your teens by simply listening.
- Tip #4: Have clear expectations. Establish their role in the home with chores, siblings and social time. Colossians 3:21
- Tip #5: Discipline when needed. Have a plan for when expectations aren’t met and rules are broken.
- Tip #6: Allow for some self-expression. Choose your battles and allow your teens to express some individuality.
- Tip #7: Have clear expectations with social media. Agree on which apps they can use-and check in on those apps regularly.
- Tip #8: Teach them to earn trust. As they earn trust, you reward them with more freedom.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What were you like as a teenager? How did your parents handle you?
- What are your biggest challenges parenting your teen right now?
- Read Proverbs 22:6. What are some of the values and goals you want to establish in the home? How will you help your family to accomplish those goals?
- Of the 8 tips, which one is most helpful for you right now? Explain.
- Read Colossians 3:21. How can clear expectations regarding rules and freedoms help you to avoid conflict with your teen?
- What are your views on discipline for your teen? Do you agree that it’s necessary?
- Has your teen wanted to wear things that make you uncomfortable? Are there ways you can meet your teen halfway?
- How are you currently monitoring social media? How can your teen earn trust with you in this area and in other ways?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
