When asked about the greatest commandment, Jesus emphasized loving God and loving people, a crucial topic we’ve discussed in this series. It seems the Christian community has united against homosexuality in a way that doesn’t honor God. While it’s essential to clarify that homosexuality is a sin, we also need to acknowledge that the way some Christians treat those struggling with same-sex attraction is also a sin. Jesus, during his time on earth, interacted with sinners, never condemning them harshly but lovingly showing them their sin; as we are all sinners, it’s important to approach one another with grace when pointing out faults.
It is a sin
The Bible unequivocally states that homosexual acts are considered wrong and sinful. Some argue that these verses can be explained differently, but the idea of homosexuality being condemned is consistent throughout the Bible. One such example is found in Romans 1:26-27, where it talks about God abandoning people to their shameful desires when they engage in same-sex relations. Additionally, in Genesis 19:5-7, we see the story of Lot and the men of Sodom wanting to have sex with the male visitors to Lot’s house. This incident is also cited as an example of denouncing homosexuality. To understand God’s design for sex, it is essential to explore His word and its intended purpose for human relationships.
It’s not God’s design
Genesis 2:24 states that God designed sex for marriage between one man and one woman, and homosexuality goes against this design. Here, we need to remember the definition of sin as going our own way instead of God’s way. Though it may be challenging to accept, we should seek truth from God and understand that men and women were created differently on purpose and for a purpose. And that purpose is marriage.
Attraction is not action
The Bible is clear that practicing homosexuality is wrong (Leviticus 18:22), but having same-sex attraction itself is not considered a sin. What matters is how one acts on those thoughts, because acting on same-sex attraction through sexual fantasies or acts is a sin. But simply finding someone of the same sex attractive doesn’t mean you are gay. And it’s okay to appreciate others’ beauty regardless of their sex. If you struggle with same-sex attraction, you don’t have to dwell on it.
It’s not your identity
The world may try to link your struggles with same-sex attraction to your identity, but remember, your identity should be found in Christ, not in your sexual temptations. God created sex for a purpose, and the enemy wants to twist that purpose, but don’t believe the lies. Because relationships with God and others should be the most important aspect of our lives, and our true identity lies in our connection with God, not in our sexuality.
It’s not the unforgivable sin
It’s essential to remember that same sex attraction is not a curse or undeserved punishment from God. We all face different temptations, but God is faithful and provides a way out (1 Corinthians 10:13). Denying oneself the ability to act on same-sex attraction is just the same as controlling any other sexual temptation, as all lust is wrong and must be managed to honor God. Remember, all sin is equal in separating us from God, but through Jesus, we can find forgiveness for all our sins, including homosexuality, as His sacrifice saves us from our past mistakes and secures our future and eternity.
The Takeaway
I need to mention one last thing: Jesus’ sacrifice doesn’t mean you can live however you want. The Bible calls us to deny our flesh and live a new life with God (2 Corinthians 5:17). If you have struggled with homosexuality or any sin, you need to repent in a way that honors God, understanding the difference between worldly and godly repentance. Remember, you are never too far gone, and no matter your struggles, you can always turn to God for forgiveness and a new start, so don’t wait, let today be the day you truly repent, and though it may not be easy, it will be worth it!
