The question of whether to baptize infants is one of the most significant points of debate among various Christian denominations. From a biblical, evangelical perspective, baptism is intended for those who have personally placed their faith in Jesus Christ, a practice often called “believer’s baptism.” While some traditions view infant baptism as a sign of God’s covenant with a family, the New Testament pattern consistently shows individuals hearing the Gospel, believing in Christ, and then being baptized as an outward expression of that internal faith.
The Biblical Pattern of Believer’s Baptism
When we examine the New Testament, we see a consistent order of operations regarding baptism. In every specific instance recorded in the book of Acts, baptism follows a conscious decision to follow Jesus. This sequence—hearing the Word, receiving the message, and then being baptized—suggests that the ordinance is a response to salvation rather than a means to it. Because an infant cannot yet understand the Gospel or repent of sin, they cannot fulfill the biblical prerequisite of personal faith.
“But when they believed Philip as he preached the Good News about the Kingdom of God and the name of Jesus Christ, they were baptized, both men and women.” (Acts 8:12, NLT)
In this passage, the focus is clearly on men and women who “believed.” The Bible does not explicitly mention infants being baptized in any of the conversion stories. While some point to “household baptisms” mentioned in Scripture, the text usually notes that the entire household believed the message along with the head of the house. Baptism serves as a public “ID card” for a believer, signifying that they have personally identified with the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus.
The Difference Between Circumcision and Baptism
A common argument for infant baptism is that it serves as the New Testament equivalent of Old Testament circumcision. Under the Old Covenant, male infants were circumcised as a sign of their entry into the physical community of Israel. However, the New Covenant is different because it is a spiritual community made up of those who have been “born again” through the Spirit. The “sign” of the New Covenant is not a physical mark on a child, but a “circumcision of the heart” performed by God when a person trusts in Christ.
“In Christ you were also circumcised, but not by a physical procedure. It was a spiritual procedure—the cutting away of your sinful nature.” (Colossians 2:11, NLT)
While circumcision was a birthright for every Jewish male, the New Testament teaches that spiritual life is not inherited through physical lineage. Each person must come to God on their own terms. Therefore, baptism is the celebration of that spiritual “procedure” that has already taken place in the heart of a believer. Forcing the sign of the covenant onto an infant who has not yet experienced this spiritual transformation misses the symbolic power of the act.
Understanding Household Baptisms in the Bible
Proponents of infant baptism often highlight stories like that of the Philippian jailer or Lydia, where entire “households” were baptized. They argue that these households likely included infants. However, a closer look at these narratives often reveals that everyone in the house was capable of hearing and responding to the Word of God. In the case of the jailer, the text specifically states that the apostles spoke the word of the Lord “to all who were in his house.”
“And they shared the word of the Lord with him and with all who lived in his household… and he and everyone in his household were immediately baptized.” (Acts 16:32-33, NLT)
The immediate context shows that the household heard the preaching before they were baptized. It is a logical stretch to assume infants were present and included without a profession of faith. For the evangelical, the emphasis remains on the “word of the Lord” being received. Baptism without faith is simply getting wet; it is the internal trust in Jesus that gives the external symbol its spiritual meaning.
The Role of Dedication Instead of Baptism
If we shouldn’t baptize infants, how should Christian parents respond to the birth of a child? Many Bible-teaching churches practice “Child Dedication” instead. This is a ceremony where parents publicly commit to raising their child in the “way of the Lord,” praying that the child will one day choose to follow Jesus personally. This practice finds its roots in the story of Hannah dedicating Samuel or Mary and Joseph presenting Jesus in the Temple.
Dedication recognizes that the child is a gift from God and that the parents have a responsibility to model the Gospel. It avoids the confusion of “baptismal regeneration”—the idea that baptism itself saves a person—and leaves the door open for the child to experience the joy of believer’s baptism later in life. This ensures that when the child is finally baptized, it is a genuine, powerful testimony of their own journey with God.
Addressing the Eternal Security of Infants
A major concern for parents is the spiritual status of a child who dies before they are old enough to be baptized. Some traditions teach that baptism is necessary to “wash away” original sin and ensure a child goes to heaven. However, the Bible teaches that we are saved by grace through faith, not by the act of baptism. Many theologians point to the “age of accountability” or God’s special mercy toward those incapable of understanding the Gospel.
When King David lost an infant son, he expressed a confident hope: “I will go to him one day, but he cannot return to me” (2 Samuel 12:23). David believed he would see his child in the presence of God. We can trust in the character of a God who is perfectly just and loves children deeply. Baptism is a command for those who can obey it; for those who cannot, we rest in the finished work of Christ on the cross and the unfathomable mercy of God.
The Takeaway
Should you baptize your infant? While it is a heartfelt tradition for many, the biblical evidence points toward baptism as a response for those who have personally placed their faith in Jesus. Baptism is a beautiful symbol of a believer’s new life in Christ. Rather than baptizing a baby, parents can choose to dedicate their children to God, committing to lead them toward a day when they can make their own decision to follow Jesus and celebrate that faith through believer’s baptism.
