It's not always easy to be positive. In fact, we oftentimes find that being critical is our default.
Talking Points:
- Being critical of ourselves and others often times comes more naturally than being positive and encouraging. This stems from our self-esteem issues, jealousy and a need for power.
- Instead of putting us down, God wants us to know our value to him. We have been created in his image and designed with unique qualities and abilities. Psalm 86:15, 1 John 4:10
- Criticism is crushing and defeating. Don’t be that to yourself or to others. Instead, choose to speak words of encouragement and praise. Ephesians 4:29
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- On a scale from 1-10, how critical of a person are you? What rating would others give you?
- Of the three reasons above, which one resonates the most with you?
- How has your critical spirit affected your life and that of others?
- Read Psalm 86:15. What does this verse say about God’s character? How does knowing how God treats us help us to know how to treat others?
- Read Ephesians 4:29. What is this verse telling us to do? What will you do to start being more positive and less critical with yourself and others?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
