When someone breaks a promise, the consequences can be devastating. That’s why Jesus wants us to simply tell the truth.

Talking Points:

  • The Pharisees made a game out of vows – creating a loophole that undermined God’s original intent. The Pharisees essentially taught that your words don’t have value unless you make a certain oath. Matthew 5:33-37
  • Jesus is not forbidding oaths; he’s telling us not to play games with the truth. Everything we say is under the flagship of the ultimate Oath-Keeper. Proverbs 10:9, James 5:12
  • When our words can’t be trusted, it’s hard to point people to a God who can be. Hebrews 6:17-19
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Have you or someone you know been falsely accused of something? How did that impact your/their life? Why is the truth so important in these situations?
  3. Read Matthew 5:33-37 and Matthew 23:16-19. What are some loopholes people use today to break promises?
  4. Read Numbers 23:19. God is the ultimate oath-keeper. What is ultimately exposed in people who don’t keep their promises?
  5. Read Proverbs 10:9 and James 5:12. What does James mean by “let your yes be yes”? How have you been guilty of breaking a promise because you waffled or were noncommittal? How did that disappoint those involved?
  6. Read Hebrews 6:17-19. Would you say the people in your life are confident that you will keep your word? Explain. How do you need to grow in truth-telling?
  7. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
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