Many Christians wrestle with this question and asking yourself some important questions can help you find the answers you need.
Talking Points:
- Question #1: Am I lusting? Matthew 5:28
- Question #2: Is this behavior leading to other sexual sins? James 1:14
- Question #3: Is it wise or helpful to my life? 1 Corinthians 6:12
- Question #4: Is this becoming an addiction?
- Question #5: Am I being convicted while doing this? James 4:17
- Question #6: If married, is this becoming a replacement for intimacy with your spouse?
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- How have you viewed the issue of masturbation up to now? How do your friends tend to view it?
- How have you seen the practice of masturbation go hand and hand with pornography? Why is that so dangerous?
- Read Matthew 5:28. Why do you think Jesus highlights lust over adultery? How has lust gotten you into trouble in the past?
- Read 1 Corinthians 6:12. How has masturbation affected you emotionally, relationally and spiritually? How is masturbation disruptive and unhelpful to your life?
- Read James 4:17. What would you say is your level of conviction on this issue? If you feel guilt, why do you feel that way and what might that be indicating for you?
- Read Romans 6:7-14. What does this passage say about sin and our ability to fight it?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
