We know how destructive gossip is yet we all can fall into it so easily.
Talking Points:
- No matter who it is or what has been done, every person is an image bearer of God and deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Genesis 1:27
- Don’t be a landing pad for gossip. Be brave to lovingly confront someone who shares something with you that you feel is gossip and encourage them to talk directly to the offender. Ephesians 4:15
- Before you share with others, pray and make sure your heart is in the right place with the right motives. And, ask yourself who is the person that needs to hear the information. Ephesians 4:29, James 1:26
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Share a time gossip impacted you or someone you know. Why is gossip so hurtful?
- Define gossip in your own words. How do you determine where the line between just friends chatting is versus gossiping?
- Read Genesis 1:27. How might it change your approach to gossip if you consider that the other person is God’s precious creation?
- Read Ephesians 4:15. What would it look like to not be a landing pad for gossip? How can you kindly confront a gossip?
- Read Ephesians 4:29 and James 1:26. How do these verses apply to gossip? How do they challenge you and how you will conduct yourself in relationships moving forward?
- How can you talk to someone to seek advice without becoming gossipy?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
