As people whose central message is the grace of God, let’s interact with others in a way that reflects grace in what we do, what we say, and how we say it.
Talking Points:
- Speak with grace to those who don’t know God. You won’t win people to a message of grace by using methods that are anti-grace. Colossians 4:5-6, 1 Peter 3:15-16
- Treat people with grace even if they don’t follow God. Christians are called to share the good news, not to rant about how people ought to live. Matthew 5:44-45, Acts 1:8
- It’s the Holy Spirit’s job to correct people’s lifestyle. Our job is to live in a way that points people to Jesus. John 16:8, Matthew 5:16
Discussion Questions:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Have you heard someone express negative views toward Christianity? What reasons did they give?
- Read Colossians 4:5-6. Why should we live wisely among people who don’t follow Jesus? What does it look like to live wisely?
- Read 1 Peter 3:15-16. Can you give examples of how Christians have spoken with (or without) gentleness and respect to non-Christians?
- Read Matthew 5:44-45. What does Jesus tell us about what God is like? Why does Jesus bring up God’s gracious character here?
- Do you agree or disagree: “God doesn’t call us to try to correct the behavior of society.” Explain your answer.
- Read Matthew 9:10-13. Why was Jesus’ behavior so scandalous to the Pharisees?
- Jesus had a reason for engaging in relationships with people far from God. How would you describe that purpose?
- Do you think Christians in our culture are more like Jesus, or more like the Pharisees? Why? Why is it important to remember that the Holy Spirit convicts, not us?
- In Matthew 9:13, what do you think Jesus meant when he told his hearers, “I want you to show mercy, not offer sacrifices.”?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
