Baptism (Series)

Thinking about baptism? This series will tell you everything you need to know.

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FIVE BIBLE VERSES ON BAPTISM

If you’re thinking about getting baptized, you might be asking: “What does the Bible actually say about it?” In this article we’ll walk through five key Bible verses on baptism that give you a solid foundation for understanding what baptism is – and what it isn’t. This is part of a larger pursueGOD.org series designed to help you know everything you need to know about baptism.

All Scriptures are quoted from the New Living Translation (NLT).


  1. BAPTISM IS COMMANDED BY JESUS
    Matthew 28:18-20

Just before returning to heaven, Jesus gave his followers what we call the Great Commission. He told them to “go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.” Matthew 28:18-20, NLT.

Baptism isn’t a side option for extra-spiritual Christians. It’s part of the basic command of Jesus for every disciple. If you’ve trusted Jesus for salvation, baptism is not something to endlessly debate – it’s something to obey. We get baptized first and foremost because our Savior told us to. Obedience in baptism flows out of love and loyalty to Jesus.


  1. BAPTISM DOESN’T SAVE YOU
    Romans 3:22

Many people quietly wonder, “Will I finally be saved once I get baptized?” The Bible gives a clear answer. “We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are.” Romans 3:22, NLT.

We are saved the moment we place our faith in Christ, not the moment we step into the water. Baptism doesn’t earn God’s forgiveness or make us his children. It’s possible to be baptized and not truly trust Jesus – just as it’s possible to trust Jesus before you ever get baptized. Salvation is by grace through faith; baptism is our response of obedience after we’ve already been made right with God.

This means you don’t get baptized in order to be saved; you get baptized because you are saved. That distinction brings freedom and clarity.


  1. BAPTISM IS ONE OF OUR FIRST ACTS OF OBEDIENCE
    Acts 8:26-39

In Acts 8, Philip explains the good news about Jesus to an Ethiopian official riding in his chariot. As they travel, the man spots water and says, “Look! There’s some water! Why can’t I be baptized?” Acts 8:36, NLT. Philip doesn’t tell him to wait months or years; they stop the chariot and the man is baptized on the spot.

This shows us that baptism is meant to be one of our earliest steps of obedience. Once you understand the gospel and trust Christ, baptism is a clear next step. It’s like telling God, “I’m serious about following you, and I’m not waiting around to prove it.”


  1. BAPTISM IDENTIFIES YOU WITH CHRIST AND HIS CHURCH
    Romans 6:3

Paul writes, “Have you forgotten that when we were joined with Christ Jesus in baptism, we joined him in his death?” Romans 6:3, NLT.

In the early church, baptism was a public way of saying, “I belong to Jesus and I belong with his people.” Going under the water symbolizes being united with Jesus in his death; coming up out of the water pictures being united with him in his resurrection life.

Baptism is not just a private spiritual moment between you and God. It’s also a public declaration: “I’m with Jesus, and I’m with his people.” It’s how a new believer steps into visible identification with the body of Christ.


  1. BAPTISM IS AN OUTWARD SYMBOL OF AN INWARD REALITY
    Romans 6:4

Paul continues, “For we died and were buried with Christ by baptism. And just as Christ was raised from the dead… now we also may live new lives.” Romans 6:4, NLT.

Baptism is called an ordinance – a physical symbol that points to a spiritual truth. One helpful picture is a wedding ring. The ring is not the marriage itself, but it’s a powerful symbol of the covenant. If you take your ring off, you’re still married. In the same way, if you’re truly trusting Jesus, you belong to him even before baptism.

But the symbol still matters. Baptism shows the world what God has already done in your heart. Going into the water pictures your old life being buried with Christ. Coming out of the water proclaims that you now walk in newness of life.


PULLING IT ALL TOGETHER

So what do these five verses teach us?

  • Jesus commands baptism for every disciple.

  • Salvation comes by faith in Jesus alone, not by a ritual.

  • Baptism is one of our first steps of obedience after trusting Christ.

  • Baptism identifies us with Christ and his church.

  • Baptism is an outward symbol of the inward reality of new life in Christ.

If you’ve trusted in Jesus, baptism is your opportunity to obey him, declare your faith, and celebrate what God has already done in your life. Talk it over with a pastor, parent, small group leader, or mentor, and use the discussion questions below to help you prepare for this important step.

Talking Points:
  • Baptism is commanded by Jesus as part of making disciples, not as an optional extra for super-spiritual Christians. Matthew 28:18-20
  • Salvation comes by faith in Christ alone, not by religious rituals like baptism. Romans 3:22
  • Baptism is meant to be one of our first practical acts of obedience after we trust in Jesus. Acts 8:26-39
  • Through baptism we publicly identify with Jesus’ death and resurrection and with his people, the church. Romans 6:3
  • Baptism is an outward symbol of an inward reality—like a wedding ring that represents a covenant already made. Romans 6:4
  • Not getting baptized doesn’t mean you’re not saved if you truly trust Christ, but obeying Jesus in baptism is an important step of spiritual growth. Romans 3:22, Romans 6:3-4
  • If you’ve placed your faith in Jesus, the real question is not “Do I feel ready?” but “Will I trust and obey Jesus by taking this next step?” Matthew 28:18-20

Discussion:
  1. Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
  2. Read Matthew 28:18-20. How does seeing baptism as part of Jesus’ command to “make disciples” change the way you think about it?
  3. Read Romans 3:22. Why is it so important to understand that baptism does not save us? How might confusion on this point affect someone’s faith or confidence before God?
  4. Read Acts 8:26-39. What stands out to you about the Ethiopian official’s response to the gospel? What might keep people today from responding that quickly in obedience?
  5. Read Romans 6:3-4. How does baptism picture both death and new life? Share how your own story (or testimony you’ve heard) connects with this picture.
  6. The lesson compares baptism to a wedding ring. In what ways is that analogy helpful? Are there any ways it falls short? Discuss.
  7. Where are you personally in the process—still exploring, already a believer but not yet baptized, or baptized in the past? What is your clear next step after today’s conversation?

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FIVE BIBLE VERSES ON BAPTISM – STUDENT EDITION

Intro
Today we’re talking about baptism—what it is, what it isn’t, and why it matters for anyone who wants to follow Jesus. You might be wondering, “Do I have to get baptized?” or “What if I already did when I was younger?” This lesson will walk through five Bible verses to help you understand baptism clearly and confidently.

Icebreaker: “Yes or No Line-Up” (5–10 minutes)
Have everyone stand in the middle of the room. Designate one wall as “YES” and the opposite wall as “NO.” Read out fun statements and have students move quickly to the side that fits them:

  • I like pineapple on pizza.

  • I’d rather swim in a lake than a pool.

  • I’ve been to a baptism before.

  • I feel nervous thinking about being in front of people.

  • I’ve thought seriously about getting baptized.

After a few rounds, ask:

  • What did you notice about how different people answered?

  • How did it feel to move to one side or the other?

Connect it:
“Just like we moved to a side of the room, baptism is a way of publicly ‘choosing a side’—saying, ‘I’m with Jesus.’ Today we’ll see what the Bible says about that decision.”


  1. Baptism Is Commanded by Jesus
    Read: Matthew 28:18-20 (NLT)

Jesus’ final instructions to his followers included two big things: make disciples and baptize them. Baptism isn’t a random tradition churches made up. It comes straight from Jesus himself.

Discuss:

  • Why do you think Jesus connected making disciples and baptizing them?

  • How does it change things to realize baptism is something Jesus told us to do?

Takeaway:
If you’re a follower of Jesus, baptism isn’t just a good idea—it’s an act of obedience to your Savior.


  1. Baptism Doesn’t Save You
    Read: Romans 3:22 (NLT)

The Bible says we are made right with God by putting our faith in Jesus, and this is true for everyone who believes. Baptism doesn’t flip some magic switch that finally makes God accept you. Faith in Jesus does that.

Discuss:

  • Why do you think some people believe baptism is what saves them?

  • How might it help someone who’s scared about their salvation to understand this verse?

Takeaway:
You’re saved by trusting Jesus, not by getting wet. Baptism shows what God has already done in your heart.


  1. Baptism Is an Early Step of Obedience
    Read: Acts 8:35-38 (NLT)

The Ethiopian official hears the good news about Jesus, spots some water, and basically says, “Why shouldn’t I get baptized right now?” He doesn’t wait months or years; he obeys right away.

Discuss:

  • What do you like about the Ethiopian’s reaction to the gospel?

  • What are some reasons students today might delay baptism even if they believe in Jesus?

Takeaway:
Baptism is one of the first big “Yes, Jesus” steps after trusting him. It’s a way to show you’re serious about following him.


  1. Baptism Identifies You with Jesus and His People
    Read: Romans 6:3 (NLT)

The Bible says that in baptism we are joined with Christ in his death. Going into the water is like saying, “My old life is gone. I’m with Jesus now.” Coming out of the water shows you’ve been raised to a new kind of life.

Discuss:

  • How does baptism show that you belong to Jesus?

  • Why do you think it matters that baptism is usually done in front of other believers?

Takeaway:
Baptism is a public way of saying, “I belong to Jesus, and I belong with his people—the church.”


  1. Baptism Is a Symbol of a New Life
    Read: Romans 6:4 (NLT)

Baptism is like a picture or symbol. Think of a wedding ring: the ring doesn’t create the marriage, it shows it. In the same way, baptism shows that you’ve died to your old life and now live a new life with Jesus.

Discuss:

  • How is baptism like a wedding ring or a team jersey?

  • If someone watched a baptism, what do you hope they would understand about Jesus and new life?

Takeaway:
Baptism is an outward sign of the inward change Jesus has already made in you.


Outro
Baptism doesn’t make you a Christian, but it does show that you are one. Jesus commanded it, the early church practiced it quickly after people believed, and the Bible explains it as a powerful picture of dying to the old and living a new life with Christ.

Closing Thought
If you’ve put your faith in Jesus, baptism is your chance to say publicly, “I’m with him.” It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being willing to trust and obey.

Challenge
This week, talk to a trusted adult—a parent, small group leader, or pastor—about where you’re at with Jesus and baptism. If you’ve already trusted Christ but never been baptized, ask, “What would it look like for me to take that step?” Then pray:

“Jesus, thank you for saving me by faith. Help me to obey you in every step, including baptism.”

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Are You Ready to Get Baptized?

Baptism is one of the most meaningful steps a Christian can take. It’s public, symbolic, and deeply personal. But before you take that step, you need clarity on what baptism is—and what it isn’t. Many people approach baptism with confusion or pressure: My friends are doing it, or My family wants me to, or I think it will make me a better Christian. But the Bible paints a far clearer picture.

Baptism doesn’t save us. Scripture teaches that we’re saved by grace through faith in Jesus (Ephesians 2:8–9). Baptism is an outward declaration of an inward reality. It’s a step of obedience that publicly displays what Jesus has already done in your heart. Romans 6:4 (NLT) explains it beautifully: “For we died and were buried with Christ by baptism. And just as Christ was raised from the dead… now we also may live new lives.” Baptism shows that you are leaving behind your old life and choosing God’s way.

In this article, we’ll explore three simple but essential questions that will help you know if you’re ready for baptism. These questions aren’t about perfection—they’re about direction. They help clarify what God has already done in your life, what you’re choosing going forward, and who should walk beside you during this milestone moment.


1. Have You Trusted Jesus for Salvation?

The first and most important question is foundational. Have you personally placed your faith in Jesus? If not, baptism is premature. According to Scripture, belief comes before baptism.

  • Acts 16:31 (NLT) – “Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved.”

  • Romans 10:9 (NLT) – “If you openly declare that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”

Baptism should never be motivated by pressure, tradition, or emotion. It’s a declaration of trust in Jesus—trust that He is your Savior, not your performance, your good intentions, or a religious ritual. Many people get baptized without understanding this, only to realize later that they hadn’t truly trusted Jesus yet. If you haven’t made that decision, do that first. Baptism makes sense only after salvation.


2. Are You Willing to Go God’s Way Now?

Choosing Jesus also means choosing His path for your life. Baptism represents that shift in direction. It symbolizes dying to your old way of living and rising into a lifestyle that honors God.

  • 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NLT) – “Anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!”

This doesn’t mean perfection. You won’t stop sinning overnight. But baptism marks the start of a new pattern—a commitment to walk with God, grow in faith, and seek what pleases Him. It’s a decisive moment saying, “I want to follow Jesus from here on out.” Baptism is obedience, but it’s also a launching point for lifelong transformation.


3. Who Needs to Be Part of This Step?

Baptism is deeply personal, but it’s not meant to be private. The Bible shows a pattern of baptisms occurring in community, often involving the people who helped someone come to faith.

Think about two groups of people:

Those who helped you on your journey.
A mentor, pastor, or friend who discipled you can play an important role in your baptism. In Scripture, those who led someone to Christ often baptized them as part of their continued spiritual relationship.

Those you can influence.
Your baptism can inspire spiritual curiosity in others. Many people take steps toward Jesus because they witnessed a baptism and saw a life that had been changed.

Baptism is a powerful public declaration. Don’t miss the chance to invite people who need to see what God is doing in your life. Romans 10:10 (NLT) reminds us: “It is by openly declaring your faith that you are saved.” Your baptism is one of the clearest ways to declare that Jesus is Lord of your life.


Conclusion

So—are you ready to get baptized? If you’ve trusted Jesus, are committed to going His way, and want to include the right people in the process, then you’re ready for this step of obedience. Baptism doesn’t make you a Christian, but it boldly announces to the world that you belong to Christ. It marks the beginning of a new life with Him, lived openly and joyfully for His glory.


Talking Points:

Baptism is an outward symbol of inward faith. It shows that you have already trusted Jesus for salvation. Romans 10:9.

Trust in Jesus must come before baptism. Don’t get baptized because of pressure or ritual—only because you’ve believed in Christ for salvation. Acts 16:31.

Baptism represents choosing God’s way. It symbolizes dying to your old life and rising into a new one. Romans 6:4, 2 Corinthians 5:17.

Baptism is one of the first steps of obedience. It’s the beginning of a pattern of honoring God with your life.

Invite the right people. Those who discipled you and those who need spiritual encouragement should be part of your baptism moment. Romans 10:10.


Discussion:
  1. Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?

  2. Why is it important to trust Jesus before getting baptized?

  3. What does it mean to “go God’s way” after baptism? How is this different from being perfect?

  4. Who has influenced your faith journey, and why might you want them involved in your baptism?

  5. Who in your life might benefit spiritually from seeing your baptism?

  6. How does baptism help you publicly declare your faith, according to Romans 10:10?

  7. Which of the three questions do you personally need to reflect on most before taking the step of baptism?


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Intro

Today we’re talking about a big step in the Christian life—baptism. Maybe you’ve seen people get baptized at church or at a camp, and you’re wondering if you’re ready for it too. Baptism doesn’t save you; it simply shows everyone that you’ve already chosen to follow Jesus. In this lesson, we’ll look at three questions that help you decide if you’re ready for this important moment.


Icebreaker: “Sink or Float Challenge”

Setup:
Bring a bin of water and several random objects (rock, tennis ball, small toy, sponge, etc.).

How to Play:

  1. Students guess whether each item will sink or float.

  2. Drop each item in and reveal the results.

  3. Ask:

    • “Did any item surprise you?”

    • “Did the outside appearance match what it did in the water?”

Connect it:
“Just like some objects look one way but act another way in the water, baptism shows what’s really happening inside of us when we follow Jesus. It’s an outward sign of what God has already done in your heart.”


1. Have You Trusted Jesus?

Before getting baptized, the Bible says we must believe in Jesus first. Baptism comes after we trust Him.

Read: Romans 10:9 (NLT)
Discuss:

  • What does it mean to trust Jesus for salvation?

  • Why shouldn’t we get baptized just because other people are doing it?
    Takeaway: Baptism is a sign that you’ve already chosen Jesus—so believing comes first.


2. Are You Ready to Go God’s Way?

Baptism represents a new direction. It shows that you want to live for God from now on—not perfectly, but intentionally.

Read: Romans 6:4 (NLT)
Discuss:

  • What does it look like to “leave the old life behind”?

  • What’s one area where you want to start honoring God more?
    Takeaway: Baptism is the start of a new pattern—choosing God’s way little by little.


3. Who Should Be Part of Your Baptism?

Baptism is public for a reason. It encourages others and shows them what God has done in your life.

Read: Romans 10:10 (NLT)
Discuss:

  • Who helped you learn about Jesus? Would you want them there?

  • Who in your life might be encouraged if they saw your baptism?
    Takeaway: Baptism is a chance to share your faith with people who matter.


Outro

Baptism is an exciting step. It doesn’t make you a Christian, but it shows the world that you’ve chosen to follow Jesus. If you’ve trusted Him, want to go His way, and have people you want involved, then you may be ready.

Closing Thought: Baptism is a public way of saying, “I belong to Jesus now.”
Challenge: If you’re thinking about baptism, talk to a trusted leader this week and work through these three questions together.

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Should You Get Baptized Again?

A Biblical Guide for Christians Considering Re-Baptism**

Many Christians wrestle with the question, “Should I get baptized again?”—especially if their spiritual journey has taken twists and turns over the years. Baptism is a foundational step of Christian discipleship, yet not everyone fully understood faith when they were first baptized. Others may have been baptized in a church or movement that didn’t teach the biblical gospel. This guide will walk you through three essential questions to help you discern your next step with clarity and confidence.


1. What Did You Believe During Your First Baptism?

The most important question is also the simplest:
Had you personally trusted Jesus for salvation at the time of your first baptism?

In Scripture, baptism always follows saving faith. It is a public declaration that you have already placed your trust in Christ. Romans 6:3–4 (NLT) explains that baptism symbolizes our union with Jesus—dying with Him, being buried with Him, and rising again to new life.

If your first baptism happened before you genuinely trusted Christ, then biblically speaking, the symbol did not match your spiritual reality. In that case, getting baptized again is appropriate and aligns with the New Testament pattern.


2. Was Your First Baptism in a Bible-Believing Christian Church?

Another key factor is the theological context of your baptism:

  • Was the church committed to the authority of Scripture?

  • Did it teach salvation by grace through faith in Jesus alone?

  • Did it uphold the biblical gospel?

If you were baptized in a group that does not teach the biblical gospel—such as the LDS (Mormon) church—your baptism was not Christian baptism in the New Testament sense. In that case, getting baptized again in a Bible-believing church is the right and necessary step.


3. Are You Seeking Re-Baptism as a Recommitment? Check Your Motives.

Some believers consider re-baptism because their faith has matured or because they’ve made a fresh spiritual commitment. While Scripture provides no examples of Christians being re-baptized for renewal, it also does not forbid it.

A recommitment baptism can be meaningful if your motives are healthy.

Here’s the danger:
Re-baptism must not become a spiritual “work” to earn God’s approval. The Bible is clear that salvation comes through faith alone—not through baptism or any other religious act.

Romans 3:22 (NLT) – “We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are.”

If the Holy Spirit is prompting you, and your motive is to publicly honor Christ—not to earn His favor—re-baptism can be a powerful step of obedience and testimony.


Seeking Wisdom as You Decide

If you’re unsure whether re-baptism is the right next step, talk with a pastor, mentor, or mature Christian friend. Honest conversation can help clarify whether your desire is rooted in truth, gratitude, and spiritual growth.

If after prayer and counsel you feel led to move forward, do so boldly. Baptism doesn’t save you—but it beautifully declares what Jesus has already done in your life. And your step of obedience may inspire others to do the same.

Talking Points:

● Baptism is a step after trusting Jesus for salvation. If your first baptism happened before true faith, you should be baptized again. Romans 6:3-4.
● Christian baptism must be connected to a Bible-believing church that teaches the biblical gospel. If your previous baptism wasn’t, seek a new one.
● If you want to be baptized again as a recommitment, examine your motives. Salvation comes through faith—not through baptism or any other work. Romans 3:22.
● Re-baptism isn’t commanded or forbidden in Scripture, so the key is your heart. Talk with a pastor or mentor as you seek clarity.
● Baptism is a powerful outward declaration of an inward transformation that only Jesus brings.


Discussion:
  1. Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?

  2. Looking back at your first baptism experience, what did you understand about salvation and faith at the time?

  3. Why is the order—faith first, baptism second—so important for understanding the meaning of baptism?

  4. How would you explain the difference between a Bible-believing Christian church and a group that teaches a different gospel?

  5. What motives might lead someone to seek re-baptism in an unhealthy way? What might be healthy motives?

  6. Read Romans 3:22. How does this verse help guard us from treating baptism as a work that saves us?

  7. What next step (conversation, prayer, mentorship) do you personally need to take as you consider baptism or re-baptism?


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SHOULD YOU GET BAPTIZED AGAIN? — Student Edition

Intro

Today we’re talking about a question many Christian students wrestle with: Should I get baptized again? Maybe you were baptized when you were little, or maybe you didn’t fully understand what faith meant back then. Baptism is a huge step in following Jesus, so today we’ll learn how to know whether re-baptism is the right move. By the end, you’ll understand what baptism represents and how to make a wise, God-honoring decision.

Icebreaker: “Baptism Match-Up”

Grab three paper cups and place them upside down. Under one cup, hide a small cross or piece of candy.
Mix the cups around, then let students guess where the item is.
Ask:
● Did knowing what was underneath affect your choice?
● Why does understanding something make a difference in your decisions?
Connect it:
“Just like guessing without knowing the truth, baptism requires understanding. Today we’ll learn what it really means so we can make the right choice.”


1. Faith First, Baptism Second

Read: Romans 6:3-4 (NLT)
Baptism shows the world that you already trust Jesus. If someone was baptized before they truly believed, the symbol didn’t match their story.

Discuss:
● Did you understand salvation when you were first baptized?
● Why do you think God wants baptism to come after faith?

Takeaway: Baptism is a sign of something God already did in your heart.


2. Was It a Christian Baptism?

Read: Romans 3:22 (NLT)
A real Christian baptism must happen in a church that teaches the true gospel—that we are saved by faith in Jesus, not by works. Some groups teach a different message, so their baptism isn’t Christian baptism.

Discuss:
● What do you think makes a church “Bible-believing”?
● Why does it matter where your baptism took place?

Takeaway: Baptism should reflect the real message of Jesus—not a false version.


3. Recommitment Baptism: What’s Your Motive?

Some people want to be baptized again because they’re growing in their faith. That can be a good thing, but only if they’re not trying to “earn” God’s love by doing it.

Read: Romans 3:22 again
Discuss:
● Why is it dangerous to think baptism earns God’s approval?
● What might be a healthy reason to get baptized again?

Takeaway: Baptism doesn’t save you—Jesus does.


Outro

If you’re thinking about getting baptized again, take time to pray and talk to a trusted Christian adult. God cares more about your heart than your performance. He loves guiding you toward the right next step.

Closing Thought: Baptism is a celebration, not a requirement to earn God’s love. Make the choice based on truth, not pressure.

Challenge: Talk to a mentor, parent, or pastor this week about your faith story and where baptism fits into it. Ask God to show you the right step.

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Is My Child Ready to Get Baptized?

Key Verse: “For you are all children of God through faith in Christ Jesus.”Galatians 3:26 NLT

Christian parents love the idea of seeing their kids publicly declare faith in Jesus. It’s a meaningful moment—one filled with hope, joy, and deep spiritual significance. But baptism isn’t simply a milestone or a ritual. It’s a public declaration of an internal reality, and that means readiness matters. Today’s article will help you discern whether your child truly understands the gospel and is prepared to take this important step.


Understanding Baptism: What It Is—and What It Isn’t

The Bible makes it clear: baptism is a symbol, not salvation. Paul says, “For you were buried with Christ when you were baptized…” Colossians 2:12 NLT. This outward act points to an inward faith that only God can produce. Kids don’t need to grasp deep theology, but they do need a basic understanding of the gospel—who Jesus is, what He did, and why they personally need Him.

Parents often feel pressure to “get the moment right,” but baptism shouldn’t be rushed. God does heart-work in His timing. Your role is to guide, teach, and shepherd—not push a child into a spiritual step they’re not ready to take.


1. Does My Child Understand the Gospel?

A child ready for baptism can explain—in their own words—three simple truths:

  • Who Jesus is

  • What He did on the cross

  • Why they personally need Him

Romans 10:9 (NLT) says, “If you openly declare that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart… you will be saved.” You’re not looking for seminary-level answers but for personal, heartfelt faith. A red flag is motivation rooted in peer pressure: “My friends are doing it” or “It seems cool.” Baptism is a response to Jesus—not to social influence.


2. Is My Child Following Jesus in Simple, Real Ways?

Before baptism, you’ll often see the early signs of discipleship:

  • They pray on their own.

  • They ask spiritual questions.

  • They show simple conviction when they sin.

These glimpses of spiritual life point to what Paul describes: “Anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 NLT. Perfection isn’t the goal—spiritual growth is. If your child shows a tender heart toward God, that’s a meaningful sign.


3. Is This Their Decision?

A child must want baptism for themselves—not to please a parent or leader. Ask:
“Why do YOU want to get baptized?”

Scripture encourages personal reflection: “Let each one examine themselves…” 1 Corinthians 11:28 NLT. Listen carefully. Genuine readiness sounds like ownership, not obligation. Celebrate interest, but avoid manufacturing enthusiasm.


4. Do They Understand What Baptism Represents?

Baptism is a picture of the gospel:

  • Going under water = dying to the old life

  • Coming out of water = rising with Jesus

Romans 6:4 (NLT) puts it this way: “We died and were buried with Christ by baptism…” Using simple metaphors helps: a wedding ring, a team jersey, even a before-and-after picture. Kids don’t need complexity—just clarity.


What About Age?

Scripture never sets an age requirement. What matters is understanding and personal faith. Many churches set practical guidelines (often around age 7–8), not as biblical rules but as markers of typical comprehension. Preschoolers may express sincere love for Jesus yet lack the ability to articulate sin, repentance, or the meaning of baptism. Remember: delay is often discipleship, not denial.


What If My Child Isn’t Ready?

You are not failing—and your child isn’t behind. Spiritual readiness grows naturally through:

  • Conversations at home

  • Reading Scripture together

  • Modeling faith

  • Showing grace when they mess up

Baptism is a celebration, not a deadline. Trust that God is already working in your child’s heart.


When Your Child Is Ready

If the signs of readiness are clear, take these next steps:

  • Schedule a conversation with a pastor or ministry leader.

  • Let your child share their faith story in their own words.

  • Prepare for the day—invite family, practice their testimony, and celebrate well.

A meaningful baptism comes from genuine faith—not pressure, comparison, or hurry.


Closing Thought

Baptism is a beautiful moment, but it’s not the moment that saves. Jesus does that. Your job as a parent is to guide your child patiently, prayerfully, and biblically—and to celebrate joyfully when they’re truly ready to make their faith public.

Talking Points:
  • Baptism is an outward declaration of an inward faith. Salvation happens in the heart, not in the water. Colossians 2:12, Galatians 3:26
  • A child should understand the gospel in simple, personal terms—who Jesus is, what He did, and why they need Him. Romans 10:9
  • Early signs of discipleship include prayer, questions, and conviction about sin. We’re looking for evidence of spiritual life, not perfection. 2 Corinthians 5:17
  • Baptism must be a child’s own decision, not motivated by parents or peers. 1 Corinthians 11:28
  • Kids should understand what baptism represents: dying to the old life and rising to new life in Christ. Romans 6:4
  • Age isn’t the determining factor—understanding and personal faith are.
  • If a child isn’t ready, parents can keep discipling through ongoing conversations, modeling faith, and trusting God’s timing.


Discussion:
  1. Read the talking points above as a group, including scripture references. What are your initial thoughts about these points or about the podcast lesson (see audio above)?
  2. How would you explain the difference between salvation and baptism to a child?
  3. What signs of early spiritual growth have you seen in children—your own or others?
  4. Why is it important for baptism to be a child’s decision rather than something parents push for?
  5. How can parents wisely discern whether their child understands the gospel clearly?
  6. What are healthy ways to respond when a child wants to be baptized but isn’t quite ready?
  7. What practical next steps can a family take when their child truly is ready for baptism?

Talking Points:
  • Baptism might seem weird – like swimming at church. But it’s actually a really cool symbol that we believe in Jesus: his death (going into the water) and his resurrection (coming out to the water).
  • Does baptism save us? Nope, getting baptized doesn’t save us from our sins. Jesus saves us from our sins the moment we put our trust in him. Baptism is what we do after we’ve trusted in Jesus because we want to tell the whole world that we belong to him.
  • Why should we get baptized? Jesus told us we should get baptized. And, when Jesus tells us to do something, we should do it! The other reason is because baptism is a symbol for something that happens in our lives when we meet Jesus. Romans 6:4, Colossians 2:12

Discussion:
  1. Have you ever seen someone get baptized? What was it like?
  2. Read Romans 10:9-10. Who saves us? What do we need to do to be saved? Have you asked Jesus into your heart?
  3. Read Matthew 28:18-19. Who told us we should get baptized?
  4. Read Colossians 2:12. What does going into the water mean? What does it mean when we come out of the water?
  5. Are you ready to get baptized?