What do you do if you messed up and went too far in a dating relationship?

Talking Points:

  • God designed sex to be a bond that joins a husband and wife together for life. It’s meant to be shared with one person, not several people. Genesis 2:24
  • If you’ve messed up and gone too far, it’s not too late. You can change your mindset to be one that desires to go God’s way, helps you to draw clear boundaries, and the commitment to stick to them.
  • The Bible says that when you confess your sins, God is faithful to forgive them. You don’t have to be stuck in guilt and shame. 1 John 1:9
Discussion Questions:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Briefly share what your dating experiences have been up to now. How have you approached the physical part of your dating relationships?
  3. What are some of the negative consequences that can come if you have sex with the wrong person? How have you seen the physical part of a relationship really damage someone?
  4. Read Genesis 2:24. What does this verse imply about sex and marriage?
  5. What mindset do you need to have to stay pure in your relationship? What boundaries need to be put in place to protect you?
  6. Read 1 John 1:9. Have you confessed your mistakes to God yet? Explain. Why is it important for us to name our sins and confess them?
  7. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?

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