This generation is highly relational and responds to a person who shows care and concern for them.
Talking Points:
- If you want your athletes to follow your lead, you have to build a relationship first. Athletes today are highly relational and respond best to a coach who is encouraging rather than harsh and rules focused.
- The same idea applies to spiritual things. Religion is about rules and regulations but following Jesus is about a relationship. James 1:26-27
- Model for your players what you expect from them. Be a servant leader who cares about treating everyone with dignity and then your players will follow suit.
Discussion Questions:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Describe your team dynamics right now. What are some things you’re proud of and what are some things you would like to change?
- Do you agree that this generation is motivated more by relationships than rules? Explain. How well do you do at building relationships with your players? How can you improve?
- Read James 1:26-27. Describe your relationship with God right now (vibrant and active, going through the motions, or non-existent). What would you like it to be like? How do you want your faith to impact your role as a coach?
- What are some character traits you want to see in your players? How are you modeling those in your own life?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
