Don't put up your pride wall when you mess up! Be humble enough to own your mistakes and learn from them.
Talking Points:
- When we’re called out on something, our first reaction is to be defensive and to want to protect our honor. Instead of getting defensive, use the 4 A’s to grow.
- Admit your mistake. Own your part and leave it to others to own theirs.
- Really apologize. Don’t be fake when you say sorry. Matthew 5:23-24
- Accept the consequences. Own the punishment like you owned the mistake. Galatians 6:7
- Adapt for the future. Make an honest effort to learn from your mistake and change your behavior. Hebrews 12:11
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Share a time you messed up and had a conflict with a friend or you got in trouble at home or school. How did you react to being called out?
- Why is it helpful to know that nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes? How can that realization help you to own up when you mess up?
- Read Matthew 5:23-24. What does Jesus say about forgiveness in this passage? Why is it hard to say “I’m sorry.” Why are those words so important for healing a relationship?
- Read Hebrews 12:11. How does God use discipline in our lives? Share a consequence you received that got your attention and changed your behavior.
- Think about a recent mistake. What are some practical things you can do to adapt and change to avoid repeating that mistake?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
