There are some important do's and don'ts when having a disagreement with your spouse. Learn what you should do if you want to resolve your fights in a healthy way.
Talking Points:
- Seek God’s will together as husband and wife. You are one flesh with your spouse. Genesis 2:24.
- If there’s a serious disagreement, slow down, think and pray about it. 1 Peter 3:7
- If there’s a conflict with your spouse, go to them first and give your spouse the freedom to invite others into the conversation if you can’t find agreement. Matthew 18:15-17
- When there is conflict, seek God’s word, humble yourself, and widen the circle of accountability. Hebrews 10:24-25
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What are some ways you’ve handled disagreements with your spouse in the past? How did it turn out?
- Read Genesis 2:24. How does this verse apply to seeking God’s will together? How does keeping God in mind help you in times of conflict?
- Read Matthew 18:15. In your opinion, how does this verse apply to marriage? What is a constructive way to bring your frustrations to your spouse?
- Read Hebrews 10:24-25. How do these verses apply to turning to the church community or “widening the circle” of accountability? What are some examples of issues that might benefit from widening the circle?
- What are some situations where it might be wise not to invite others into a marital conflict or disagreement?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
