What should you do when you learn that someone is gossiping about you? Here are two practical, biblical steps.
Talking Points:
- Step #1 – Gossip is best dealt with head-on. Go to the person who is gossiping and have a conversation. Make sure you’re gracious, honest and teachable in your approach. Matthew 18:15
- Step # 2- You can only do your part. Hope for the best when you confront the person and try to gain a friend, not an enemy. Romans 14:19
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Why do you think people gossip in the first place? Make a list.
- Read 2 Corinthians 12:20-21. Without gossiping, share about a time when you gossiped. Why is gossip so destructive?
- What would you do if someone called you out on your gossip?
- Read Matthew 18:15. Why does it take courage to confront someone about their gossip? How can you confront someone in a loving way?
- Read Romans 14:19. Confrontation can be scary but how can lovingly approaching someone with a concern create peace and health in the relationship?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
