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Not everyone that you invest in will end up going full circle in their pursuit of God. Here’s how to pull the ripcord.
Key Points:
- Failure to “close the loop” is sure to happen as you make disciples, because you can only do your part.
- If the conversations are going nowhere, set a clear end date.
- Keep dropping topics every month, and pray for a breakthrough.
Quote This:
Luke 15:20 So [the prodigal] returned home to his father. And while he was still a long way off, his father saw him coming. Filled with love and compassion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him.
Talk About It
- What is your initial reaction to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Share about one of your own failed mentoring relationships. What happened?
- What do you think the biggest roadblock is that keeps people from “closing the loop” and going full circle as a follower of Jesus?
- How do you know if someone has checked out of their pursuit of God? Make a list of the signs.
- Why is it important to proactively set an end date for someone who doesn’t seem interested anymore? What are the possible outcomes if you don’t set that end date?
- How can you “drop topics” without seeming like a stalker? How often do you think you could get away with it before it creeps out your former mentee?
- Read Luke 15:20-24. What mentality did the father need in order to receive back his son? Are you willing to have that same mentality toward your mentee?
- Write a personal action step based on this conversation.
