True contentment can’t be found in people or possessions. Only God can bring us true fulfillment and happiness.
Talking Points:
- We will never find contentment if we only focus on the imperfection in others. We will be miserable if we expect perfection from imperfect people. And we are imperfect, too, and need to realize the part we play in failed relationships.
- Forgiveness is a necessary step in healing a relationship. Extending forgiveness is what frees us to move on from the junk to a place of healing and reconciliation. This is what Jesus did for us. Colossians 3:12-13
- A.W. Tozer said it like this: “Within the human heart things have taken over. God’s gifts now take the place of God, and the whole course of nature is upset by the monstrous substitution. We have mixed up what we serve and what we use. Sadly, many serve things and use God.” Exodus 20:4
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Share a time when you felt hurt or betrayed by someone. What was your emotional reaction to that situation? What happened with that relationship?
- What happens when we put too much stock in our relationships? Why is it dangerous to expect perfection from others?
- What are some of your imperfections that get in the way of having healthy relationships?
- Read Colossians 3:12-13. List all the qualities you should possess. How could these qualities change your relationships? Why is forgiveness so freeing?
- What are your most prized possessions? Why are those things so important to you?
- Re-read the quote from A.W. Tozer. How have you been guilty of worshiping your stuff instead of God?
- Read Exodus 20:4. What are some practical things you can do to start prioritizing God over everything else?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
This lesson has been adapted from Linda Dillow’s Calm My Anxious Heart novel.
