One of the most destructive communication patterns in marriage is passive-aggression. Here are three reasons NOT to get into the habit in your home.
Talking Points:
- Passive- aggressive communication is when you say hurtful things in an indirect way. It might be in the form of a joke or the roll of the eyes.
- This type of communication is very hurtful. It comes from a mean heart and it’s very confusing for your spouse to know or understand your true intentions.
- It’s better to use honest and genuine communication with your spouse so you can get to healthy resolution. Ephesians 4:29
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Explain in your own words what passive-aggressive behavior looks like. Why do you think people choose this behavior?
- On a scale from 1 to 10, how passive-aggressive are you? Defend your answer. How has this behavior affected your marriage?
- What are the consequences for passive aggressive behavior? How is passive aggression a form of deception?
- Read Ephesians 4:29. How can you express your true feelings to your spouse in a way that is for their benefit?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
