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Christian men shouldn’t be looking for the next fling...they should be searching for a wife.

Key Points:

  • Seek a wife after God. Christian men should want a woman who loves God.
  • Look for beauty within. Christian men should seek a woman who shines from the inside out.
  • Attraction must exist. As much as inner beauty is important, men need to find pursue a woman they are attracted too. Sex plays an important part in marriage. Desire, passion, and excitement can help bond and drive a couple closer together.
  • Seek a partner, not a master or servant. Marriage is a team sport. While men and women have different roles and responsibilities, the game is won when they work together.
  • Find a best friend. Christian men should seek a best friend and life partner for marriage.
  • One of the most important steps in finding a potential wife is knowing what qualities to seek and to exhibit those same qualities yourself.

Quote This:

Matthew 7:24-29 “Anyone who listens to my teaching and follows it is wise, like a person who builds a house on solid rock. Though the rain comes in torrents and the floodwaters rise and the winds beat against that house, it won’t collapse because it is built on bedrock. But anyone who hears my teaching and doesn’t obey it is foolish, like a person who builds a house on sand. When the rains and floods come and the winds beat against that house, it will collapse with a mighty crash.” When Jesus had finished saying these things, the crowds were amazed at his teaching, for he taught with real authority—quite unlike their teachers of religious law.

Talk About It
  1. What is your initial reaction to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. What are the top three qualities you are seeking in a future spouse? How does your list overlap with or differ from those Allen Parr lists?
  3. Which of the qualities listed in this topic appeal most to you? Why?
  4. Which of the qualities listed in this topic have been/are a challenge for you? Why?
  5. Write a personal action step based on this conversation.
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