Jesus offered a simple answer to a complicated question, unveiling a pathway to a rich and satisfying life on earth.
Talking Points:
- The First Principle: Love God. A person who loves God with their heart, soul, and mind lets God be God – rather than trying to take over control. Matthew 22:37-38
- The Second Principle: Love Others. When a person learns to be in right relationship with God, he can begin to live in proper relationship with others. Matthew 22:39, John 15:13
- The Third Principle: Love Yourself. A “me-first” mentality often results from a lack of self-esteem or confidence. A “God-first” mentality allows a person to embrace his God-given value. Genesis 1:26
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What are some ways a “me-first” approach to life creates problems?
- Read Proverbs 16:25. Do you think this verse is talking about literal death? What else could it refer to?.
- Read Matthew 22:36-40. Which of the 10 Commandments relates to “loving God”? Which ones relate to “loving others”? (See Exodus 20 for the 10 Commandments.)
- What do you think Jesus had in mind when he said, “You must love the Lord your God”? Give some practical examples of what this looks like in your life.
- Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. How would the life of someone who loves others look different from someone with a “me-first” attitude? Give some examples.
- What happens when a person loves God but doesn’t love people?
- What happens when a person loves people but doesn’t love God?
- Read Genesis 1:26. Why do you have value? To “love yourself” sounds like a “me-first” mentality. How are the two different?
- Based on this lesson, how would you summarize Jesus’ “grid” for approaching life?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
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