God knows that bad habits keep us in destructive patterns, so he provides a practical plan to help us overcome undesired habits.
Talking Points:
- Step #1: Stop believing the lies. Bad habits are often rooted in faulty thinking. We’re looking for satisfaction, stress-relief, or excitement, and we have been deceived into thinking that our habit will provide these for us. Ephesians 4:17-22
- Step #2: Embrace the reality of your new life. When you trusted in Jesus, he made you a new person. Part of that new identity is having the power of God living in you that can break any stronghold of sin in your life. Ephesians 4:23-24
- Step #3: Replace bad habits with good habits. When you feel that trigger that usually leads you to a bad choice, don’t just try to ignore it. Intentionally make a different choice that will actually bring the satisfaction you’re looking for. Ephesians 4:25-29
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What is an example of something you have tried, or heard someone else try, to break a bad habit?
- What are some common lies people believe about themselves or others? What are some of the lies you’ve believed in your life and how have those affected you?
- Read Ephesians 4:17-22. What are some of the most common bad habits people have to deal with insecurities or lack of self worth?
- Read Ephesians 4:23-24. How do we practically fill our heart and mind with truth instead of lies? Why is having an attitude that believes you really can change so important?
- Read 2 Corinthians 5:17. What does it practically mean that in Christ we are a “new creation?”
- Read Ephesians 4:25-29. Think about some common bad habits. What are some practical examples of positive habits that could replace these bad ones?
- How can love for God practically motivate us to change?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
