Inviting someone into a mentoring relationship can be one of the hardest parts of making disciples. Here are three simple ways to do it.
Key Points:
- Making the “invite” is completely dependent upon the type of relationship you have with the person.
- The “Direct Invite” is best for established relationships; just ask them if they want a mentor.
- The “Indirect Invite” is best for casual relationships; just send meaningful topics and offer to talk about it.
- The “Handoff” is great for mentors helping mentors; have your pastor or mentor connect you to someone who needs help.
- Learn to master the art of the invite, and be patient. Don’t give up on the greatest thing you can do in your life. Matthew 10:14
Quote This:
Matthew 10:14 If any household or town refuses to welcome you or listen to your message, shake its dust from your feet as you leave.
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Talk About It
- What is your initial reaction to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What are some of your biggest reservations in inviting someone into a mentoring relationship? Why?
- Think of someone you would like to mentor. What do you think the best way to invite them would be? Why?
- Which of these three methods do you think is easiest? Why?
- What are some difficulties that you think could arise with each of these invitation methods? How could you overcome these difficulties?
- Write a personal action step based on this conversation.
This is part of the Training 101 series.
